 | Ugh... | Nov 19, '09 11:38 AM
for everyone |
I'm so out of shape. Two months on tour, and no time at the gym. I busted out one of my workout DVDs, and could only finish HALF OF IT!!! Granted it's the Insanity workout, one that's guaranteed to make even the toughest cookie cry, but still. I don't like doing anything halfway.
That's what happens when you eat your body weight in food more than you should. Ugh.
I recently saw old pictures of myself (taken at age 28 or so), and couldn't believe it. And believe it or not, I thought I was overweight at the time. Objectively speaking though, I was in fighting shape, thanks to TaeBo everyday and performing in Miss Saigon 6 times a week. More recently, while in Les Miz, I kept my weight down by walking to work daily and not eating too much because of having to sing in that goshdarned corset.
Life... that's what happened... and it manifested itself in my hips.
Again, ugh.
I really shouldn't be so down on myself... after all, a fitness program can always be restarted, regardless of how much time was spent away from it. Thankfully there is a lot of incentive: plenty of opportunities in New York next year, and a return to musical theater (in a few of its many incarnations). That should help me keep my eyes on the prize.
Motivation... must keep focused...
- It's great having my little one all to myself without anyone to share her with for a few days...
- After the recent revelations of a close family member, I am absolutely incredibly grateful for how protective my mother was of me. Given all that I've just been told, I'm surprised she wasn't even MORE protective! Yes, I resented it at the time, but it all makes sense now. Thanks, Mom.
- As long as there's Family Guy, King of the Hill, Robot Chicken, Metalocalypse, Looney Tunes, Scooby Doo, and just about every 70s cartoon known to man, there will always be something good on TV.
- Singing is heaven.
- Doing musical theater is heaven.
- I miss my friends from home.
Isn't it weird that there are people who are such a huge part of your life one minute, and then absolutely nothing the next?
Anything with peanut butter is heaven to me.
Knowing what it's like to be completely silent for long periods of time, I've found there's really no reason to speak unless you have something really important to say. Otherwise, it's just noise.
Family Guy reruns will never get old. Ever.
New York has the best Chinese take-out anywhere.
Glee means happiness. It really does.
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I know, I know... it's been a very long while since I actually posted on my blog...
Life has been busy, what with raising a very active 3-year-old girl (who has one hell of an active imagination), being a housewife taking care of a home and husband (which can and does include late night allergy interventions), working, traveling, and making sure I have some time for myself. Well, it turns out that tonight, everything is quiet and settled, which give me blog time.
Now, what shall I blog about that I wouldn't already talk about in Backstory?
First... lots of work related stuff going on that I can't quite talk about yet... until the dotted lines are signed, I have to keep them to myself... but yes, it's all exciting!
Second... there are a few modifications I'll need to make to my house. No, nothing of the aesthetic sort... the thing is, the water quality where I live has caused a few health-related issues with my family, so upon the recommendation of our neighbors across the street, I called someone that can hopefully help us fix the problem. I'll let you all know how that turns out. If all goes well, we'll all reap the benefits. Man, the skin issues my daughter had was driving us all crazy! Was it something she ate? Was it the laundry soap? Nope, our pediatrician said that a lot of the kids in the area were suffering from the same thing caused by the water supply. Don't even ask me what it's called, I can't even pronounce it much less remember it.
Third, I've been racking up some serious frequent flyer miles, mostly for work. I'm not complaining! It's actually been a lot of fun visiting all these new cities that I've never been to, or have visited by never performed in. I've gotten to see friends that I haven't seen in a long time, which is always a great perk. And yes, I get to drive my car!!!
Yes, life has been sweet, and I feel incredibly blessed. So far, 2009 has been a very good year. It's half over, and going by quickly... I'm hoping that the rest of the year goes smoothly, too.
"To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist."
This intro has been edited to reflect current events...
After investigation, the elder Dela Paz was judged to have instigated the fight at the Valley Golf Course, and was expelled from the golf club for disorderly conduct. Meanwhile, Sec. Pangandaman was suspended for two years, and his sons banned for life from ever entering Valley Golf Club.
Amazing how a very emotional posting can sway public opinion... and how important it is to get all the facts first before handing down judgment. Turns out the victim wasn't such a victim after all.
Now that this matter has been put to bed, we can all focus on other, more important things...
Here's a link to 3 versions of the Valley Golf mauling incident:
It's now starting to dawn on me that perhaps there is much more to this than just one account, and I for one apologize for my part in fanning the flames without objectivity and the open ear to hear all sides of the story. Now my mind is mired in doubt. Since my own eyes didn't witness the crime, I'll have to depend on eyewitness accounts and results from whatever investigations are taking place on the matter.
It's very, very possible that everyone had a hand in the violence that took place in this, a presumably peaceful location of civility: the golf course. As one that has grown up around the sport (my brother himself was a junior golfer, participating in his share of tournaments back in the day), it's appalling that any sort of altercation would take place here. Golf is NOT a contact sport (save of course for a golf club coming into swift and strong smacking contact with a golf ball).
Now that all sides seem to be amply represented, read away.
Maybe everyone was a little right... and a little wrong. It's been said, there are 3 sides to every story: side A, side B, and the truth.
This is a piece written by Armida Siguion-Reyna... the link to the original column is at the end of this article (I got this from Girlie Rodis' site). Read on... ------------------------------------------ NO HOLDS BARRED Armida Siguion-Reyna Regardless of the motive10/14/08 Mulling over the possibility of watching as much could possibly be seen in one sitting of Lav Diaz's nine-hour "Kadaganan sa Banwaan Ning Mga Engkanto" (English title: "Death in the Land of Encantos")" I hear it's been rated "X" by the First Review Committee of the Movie and Television Review and Classification Board (MTRCB), courtesy of members Amalia Fuentes, Ros Olgado and Fr. Nick Cruz. Apparently not caring about the rights of the Filipino movie-viewing public — the little that's left — to see what won the Special Mention prize in the 2007 Venice International Film Festival's Orizzonti (Horizons) section, the MTRCB banned it from screening because "The scene where the woman was shown in bed naked with her breasts and vagina (genitalia) are exposed is against the rules and regulations of the board — No exhibition of the genitals." Seriously. A worldwide recession is looming. The once-mighty American economy is struggling its way past a fractious presidential elections. China is trying to recover from the melamine milk-scandal. And here in the Philippines, we're still focused on breasts and vagina in a film that's clearly nothing close to pornography. As former chairman of the MTRCB, I know that PD 1986, the law that created the board, requires that all movies, barring none, be viewed before a decision can be reached regarding approval or disapproval, before a screening permit is issued. Even so I am able to judge this particular Diaz piece sight unseen, based on Diaz's track record, his persona and the fact that there's no international buzz about how salacious it is. It cannot be malaswa. I mean, come on. A porno flick running close to half-a-day is bound to get talked about by a global media increasingly on the look-out for news to cushion horrific stories of crashing stock markets, ineffective bailouts and bankruptcies. Imagine just how many shots of insertions and pumping and close-ups of ejaculations can fit into nine hours, pag hindi naman nagkagulo ang buong mundo diyan. Except, 'yon na nga, that's not what "Encantos" is all about, as can immediately be gleaned from the first two paragraphs of the Variety's International Film Festival review section last year, written by Ronnie Schieb: "Lav Diaz's latest black-and-white digital marathon, 'Death in the Land of Encantos' (clocking in at nine hours), unfolds in the devastated landscape left in the wake of Super Typhoon 'Durian,' the worst storm to hit the Philippines in living memory. Placing a threesome of fictional characters amid the rubble, Diaz measures the aftermath of this natural disaster within the larger trauma of the islands' history. Plunging the viewer into an alternate time zone where distinctions between documentary and fiction, stasis and action slowly dissolve, pic confirms helmer's status as a brilliant but consummately non-commercial artist. "Unlike Diaz's other works, which were carefully constructed over time ('Evolution of a Filipino Family' was nine years in the making — and 10 hours in the viewing), 'Death' sprang fully grown from the ravages of the typhoon in Bicol, where Diaz had lensed several previous films. Thus, the documentary elements could not be described as "interpolated," but rather form the very clay from which the drama (if such slight strands of narrative can be so termed) is molded." Nothing there to foreshadow extreme close-ups of vulvas, arcs of semen spray and turgid penises, so why did it get an "X"? Just how completely awake the members of the Review Committee were when they "X-ed" it, is another factor to consider, but hala, sige, for the sake of the argument, I will presume they were wide awake and in full possession of their faculties Fr. Cruz is a Jesuit, like Gerald Healy, SJ, Professor of Moral Theology Emeritus, who had forwarded to us the Vatican position on context, manner of presentation, (filmmaker's) intention and culture, as standards for film review and analysis, and which we forthrightly included in our Implementing Rules and Regulations during our tenure. Fr. Cruz was a member of the Estrada MTRCB. How could he have agreed to the "X-ing" of the Diaz movie? Which brings me now to reminding all about the dangers of pending House Bill (HB) 3305, and known in the Senate as Senate Bill (SB) 2464: "An Act Prohibiting and Penalizing the Production, Printing, Publication, Importation, Sale, Distribution and Exhibition of Obscene and Pornographic Materials, and the Exhibition of Live Sexual Acts, Amending for the Purpose Article 201 of the Revised Penal Code, as Amended." I saw Tarlac Rep. Nikki Prieto Teodoro and lawyer Eric Mallonga of the MTRCB on cable TV the other day, lauding the bill and supporting its passage into law, failing to see that while it purports to "protect women and children from the pernicious effects of pornography," it more dangerously seeks to strangle all forms of creativity with the operative phrase "regardless of the motive." "'Obscene' refers to anything that is indecent or offensive or contrary to good customs or religious beliefs, principles or doctrines, or tends to corrupt or deprave the human mind, or is calculated to excite impure thoughts or arouse prurient interest, or violates the proprieties of language and human behavior, regardless of the motive of the producer, printer, publisher, writer, importer, seller, distributor or exhibitor. "'Pornographic or pornography' refers to objects or subjects of film, television shows, photography, illustrations, music, games, paintings, drawings, illustrations, advertisements, writings, literature or narratives contained in any format, whether audio or visual, still or moving pictures, in all forms of film, print, electronic, outdoor or broadcast mass media, or whatever future technologies to be developed, which are calculated to excite, stimulate or arouse impure thoughts and prurient interest, regardless of the motive of the author thereof." This bill becomes law and we completely slay the creative energies of the few remaining Lav Diazes. This bill gets passed, and gems where "…stark black-and-white digital compositions frame a landscape so bleak and boulder-strewn, so empty of habitation that it is hard to believe the land was not barren from time primordial. Painful flashbacks to the region's past resurrect a lost Eden. The only thing more shocking than the extent of the damage is the ages-deep acceptance in the eyes of the survivors…" is forever judged in terms of breast and genital exposure, and filmmaking be damned. I wonder what Amalia Fuentes feels, helping kill the industry that made her? The sell-outs of the movie bill we were lobbying for in the Ramos and Estrada presidencies willfully dropped the provision on censorship exemption, believing that only monies earned from tax rebates mattered. I wonder what they feel, now that major films cannot be screened? Death in the land of the encantos, indeed. HB 3305 and SB 2464 is murder, regardless of the motives of its sponsors. It cannot be allowed to pass. (For comments, write to: armida114@yahoo.com) http://www.tribune.net.ph/commentary/20081014com5.html
My time of rest in Manila is over... time for me to head back on
tour. May I say, with utmost happiness, that I can't wait to return!
It's always bittersweet every time I leave home though... my daughter
will remain here, as will my husband, mother, brother, and dear, dear
friends. However, I do have another home with my family on tour, and
am looking forward to seeing them and working with them again.
It's funny... it's a rare and beautiful thing when you have a cast
that just gels together in a great way, both on stage and off. That
camaraderie does translate and is obvious in performance. I am very,
very transparent, and when I don't like someone, it's painfully
obvious. Not fun at all.
So... here's to more late night poker games (in the name of Aaron
Galligan-Stierle)... more leg pain from those blasted heels and
stairs... to the hunt for a Starbucks that's actually walking distance
from the hotel and/or theater... to more culinary and gustatory
adventures... to doing a show with people I have the pleasure and
honor of calling my friends.
Here's to more fun! I have only 6 months left on this Asian tour...
if you think about it, it's really not a very long time. Yeehaaaaaaah!
 ARE YOU IN?! Tickets are at 250 pesos on a first come first serve basis. Please email us at friendsofrep@gmail.com, text TOFF at 09178908633 or reply to this post. DATE: Friday, October 17, 2008 TIME: 730 to 10 PM LOCATION: OnStage Theatre, Greenbelt 1 STREET: Paseo de Roxas CITY/TOWN: Makati, Philippines This showcase features actors Tara Tambunting, Christine Escudero, Marisse Borlaza, Farida Kabayao,Dingdong Rosales, Gabs Santos, and Kenneth Keng. forArtists is a showcase of original, raw and innovative works by fresh Filipino playwrights Ino Habana (Stiletto Club) Recipient of Ateneo's Loyola Schools Awards for the Arts for Fiction and Joshua So (Portraits) fromDe LaSalle University (Batch 2007). This ONE NIGHT ONLY event will be a collaboration of theatre artists and aims to provide them with the opportunity to develop and exhibit their material on the REP stage. This year Friends of Repertory or simply F.O.R was re-launched as a partner of Repertory Philippines (REP), comprised of theater performers and aficionados from various backgrounds and orientations. The group holds together for the love of REP and the long-term goal of instilling within the Filipino a key appreciation of theater and the performing arts. With the aim of raising theater awareness and bringing the experience of theater to a broader audience, F.O.R.'s forArtists will highlight Repertory Philippines' thrust in building a theater industry that can provide actors, directors, designers, choreographers, musicians, dancers, and all those who would like to work in theater the opportunity to do so. forArtists will continue F.O.R.'s mission to open up avenues in which all theater and non-theater- oriented members of the community may interact and collectively recognize the importance of theatre in society today. Directing the plays are first time directors Jejie Esguerra for Stiletto Club and Jenny Jamora for Portraits. For play synopsis click the following link: Stilleto Club and Portraits or go to http://bubblebathbo i.multiply. com/journal/ item/191 Visit our facebook page and sign up through the guest list: forArtists at Facebook or go to http://www.new. facebook. com/event. php? eid=26173884 428&ref=share
This is Congressman Ruffy Biazon's Multiply posting regarding this take on the Reproductive Health Bill. He serves the city of Muntinlupa. This is his unique perspective as a public servant that has to face these issues day in and day out.
I want the RH Bill passed in this congress. Yes, I support the RH Bill.
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For the first time in so many years and congresses, the debate on the Reproductive Health Bill has finally reached the Plenary. The debates are now raging, not just in the session hall but even in the media, with particular emphasis in print through the successive paid ads by the opposing groups.
In previous congresses, the bill did not make it beyond the committee hearings. On hindsight, it was a blessing in disguise, since it gave the bill time to be refined so as to become more palatable to a wider social spectrum. The bill in its present form is far from what the original bill used to be, which could be said to have been crude in present terms. All the debates over the years have contributed to revisions and inputs that addressed the concerns from various sectors.
In all these discussions on the proposed measure, legislators are asked one basic and compelling question----“Where do you stand on Reproductive Health?”
I was in a forum with students of the Ateneo de Naga last month, and during the open forum, I was asked that question. Immediately, the thought that came to my mind was the fact that only a couple of weeks before, the university held a rally against Reproductive Health. Of course, that thought was quickly followed by a question to myself…How should I answer?
I answered the students’ question with a story. I related to them my grassroots experience, particularly with my constituents whom I deal with in the everyday performance of my job.
I told them the story of Grace, a constituent of mine who lives along the railroad tracks, one of thousands of informal settlers along the stretch of the right of way of the Philippine National Railways which cuts through 8 of the 9 barangays of Muntinlupa City.
Grace is 25 years old, and pregnant. I met Grace during one of my community visits and when I saw her bulging stomach, I asked her if it was her first baby, as is my habit whenever I see a pregnant woman during my rounds in the city. She said no, it is her fifth child, with the first one born when she was 18. Her husband is employed as a laborer, but only has work every now and then.
Asked if it was their desire to have that much children, she said if she had her way, she would have stopped having kids after the second. But they didn’t practice any family planning method since they didn’t know anything about it. She also said that when her husband comes home intoxicated with liquor, she has no way to turn down his advances. Lest he gets mad and violent. Obviously, Natural Family Planning will not work for her.
Other stories of my constituents include that of Marissa, a first time mother who was eight months pregnant when she availed of the free pre-natal medical mission that my office conducted. Marissa and her husband live with her mother in law in one of the urban poor communities in Muntinlupa. While she was waiting in line, one of the barangay health workers assisting us requested me to let Marissa go in front of the line, since she wasn’t feeling well and was bloated. I took a look at her and indeed, saw that her ankles were swollen, indicative of edema and pre-eclampsia.
I let her go in front of the line to see the OB-GYN and have an ultra-sound of her belly. The image revealed that Marissa’s baby was being compressed by an enlarged placenta and what appeared to be a myoma. The placenta also had dark blotches, indicative of an internal bleeding.
We immediately sent Marissa to the hospital, since it was determined that hers was an emergency medical condition. When we interviewed her, she admitted that it was the first time she had a pre-natal check up, since she did not have the money to go to a doctor, even in a government hospital. She said instead of spending for the fare going to the clinic, she just saves it up for their daily needs and saving for the baby’s needs when the baby is born.
Another story is that of Vilma, a utility worker in one of the Muntinlupa elementary schools. Aged 27, she has 3 children and her husband is a construction worker. Together, they earn around 10,000 pesos a month. After her third child, she decided to have a ligation because she felt that with three children to take care of, they wouldn’t be able to afford having an additional child without having to sacrifice some needs of the kids they already have. I asked her why she chose to have a ligation. Slightly embarrassed, she said she wanted to stop having children while at the same time fulfill her “marital obligations” to her husband. With a giggle, said it’s better than her husband find satisfaction elsewhere.
In a similar mindset is Rhodora, a school teacher who had a ligation after her second child, which was a special child. After her second kid, she wanted to have enough time and resources to attend to the needs of her special child, not to mention her first child as well. So she consulted her gynecologist and requested that the she undergo the procedure.
Her doctor refused, saying it is against his beliefs to do the procedure. Rhodora asked for a referral, and she was referred to a colleague of the doctor. But just like the first doctor, the second one also refused, trying to convince her not to proceed, citing that it is immoral. In the end, Rhodora had to look again for another doctor, since it she felt that the service she is looking for is being denied her on the grounds of personal beliefs of the doctors.
These are just some of the stories that I commonly encounter among my constituents. Such situations are most common in the poorer communities, resulting in high incidence of malnutrition, school drop-outs, maternal and infant death, birth complications and scarcity of family resources.
Since I regularly hold medical missions in my district, I get first hand experience and information on the health conditions in the communities. Hygiene is often a problem, especially that families live in confined spaces in the urban poor communities, so the spread of disease is more likely. One of my regular activities is the conduct of prenatal medical missions, There is not a mission where we do not encounter pregnant teenagers, the youngest of which has been 14 years old.
For example, not many people know that cervical cancer may be spread through sexual contact. Cervical cancer is caused by the Human Papilloma Virus, the cause of the common wart, which may be passed from male to female. Not many people know that hygiene plays an important part in preventing the spread and cause of cervical cancer, as well as prudent sexual practices. More importantly, not many know that cervical cancer is easy to detect and cure if diagnosed early. This is because there is no policy on reproductive health.
The fact of the matter is that many of the health problems encountered in the grassroots may be attributed to the lack of reproductive health services available to the people. While some limit themselves to the issue of population and birth control in the discussions about RH, the bill is not only about population and sex. It is more about the delivery of services to the people who are in need of it. The absence of a policy opens people up to medical risks and leaves them nowhere to go but to unreliable, ineffective and sometimes life threatening remedies.
A case in point is the proliferation of vendors right beside the Quiapo church who openly sell concoctions labeled “Pang-pa Regla”. It is common knowledge that many of those who patronize those vendors do so with the intention of getting rid of unwanted pregnancies. Even if they weren’t pregnant and just wanted to have regular menstruation, it is still the wrong place to go for treatment or service.
This is not to say that having Reproductive Health services will enable the availability of abortion. The bill expressly maintains that abortion continues to be illegal in the country. To say that the bill legalizes abortion is an outright lie and deception. My point in citing the “pang-pa regla” vendors is the fact that the absence of reproductive health services and information leads to people’s ignorance about reproductive health issues and their body’s reproductive systems. If they had the right information and services available, they would know that availing of the products sold by those vendors would not only be ineffective, it may even be harmful.
The intentions of the bill’s authors and supporters are not to legalize abortion, spread a culture of promiscuity or destroy the family. It is the intention of the bill’s authors and supporters to meet the needs of a significant portion of the population for reproductive health services and information. There is absolutely no intention to impose on couples particular methods that they should employ in planning their families. It is the intention of the bill to provide information to people about responsible parenthood, family planning, avoiding unwanted pregnancies and an informed choice on which method best fits their beliefs, convictions and needs.
To continuously insist that there are other ulterior motives other than the welfare of Filipino couples and families is to deny the existence of the problems faced daily by the people. To stop the adoption of a public policy on reproductive health is a denial of service to those who seek reproductive health care.
Some make it seem that the bill if passed into law will force people to use contraceptives. Even without the bill, contraceptives are available in the commercial market. What is not available in the present regime is the correct information about contraceptives and reproductive health. What the bill will provide if passed into law, is reliable and uniform information and services which people may avail of if they so desired. Whether it is modern or natural family planning method, the couple is left to decide after being properly informed.
Why do I support the bill?
Because there are those who have signified the need to have the correct information and reliable reproductive health services .
Because I have seen first hand during my service to my constituents the consequences of the continued denial of information and service to the people.
Because there are women whose bodies have been ravaged by multiple consecutive pregnancies even if they had not planned it.
Because there are women who have been physically abused by their husbands because they refused to indulge their spouses because “it is not the right time”.
Because I have seen too many teenage pregnancies which could have been avoided had these young women been informed about their adolescent reproductive system.
Because I have seen too many complications in pregnancies and births from the poor constituents that come to my office for medical assistance.
Because I have seen too many infant and maternal deaths, orphaned children, bereaved husbands.
Because I have seen children dropping out of school because their parents cannot afford to send all their children to school at the same time.
Because there are many malnourished children whose ability to learn has been impaired.
Because I have constituents who have acquired diseases that could have been prevented if only there was appropriate information and service available to them.
Some might say that instead of supporting the proposed measure, we should just allocate enough resources to other services such as education, housing and the eradication of corruption. There is no doubt to that. We should do those things. We are trying to do those things. But at the present situation, even if we are able to provide the right number of classrooms, the right number of teachers and all the books that the students need, the ability of poor families to send their children to school is hampered by their absolute lack of resources to provide for the cost of sending the kids to school ----- transportation, snack, uniforms, other miscellaneous requirements, etc.
Statistics show that of 10 children who enter elementary school, only 6 go on to high school, and only 2 finish high school. And based on actual experience in my district, it is not due to the lack of classrooms or teachers. It is the day to day difficulty of surviving through life with the severely limited resources of poor families. Bottomline is, how can a child who does not finish studies lead the ideal productive life?
The intention is not to prescribe a limit on the number of children but to enable couples to decide their family size based on correct information and according to their desired number of children and capability to provide support.
Those who oppose the bill cite various statistics and studies all done abroad. I’m taking a position that is based on what I see with my own eyes as I perform my duties. I see the living conditions of my constituents on a daily basis, especially many of them come to my office to seek assistance for various reasons---health, education, livelihood, etc. On the other hand, I also see what government is trying to do with the little it has to serve the needs of the people.
It is unfair to those who support the bill to be labeled “anti-life”, “anti-family”, “pro-abortion” and many other monickers on the basis of a pre-conceived notions. If there is anyone who desires the best for the Filipino family, that would be the one who is most familiar to the daily struggles of the poor families. The question should not only be whether you are pro-life or not (because there is absolutely no one who is anti-life), but also if the people deserve quality of life.
This is a test... this is only a test...
We've now just arrived in Guangzhou... Peter, Sheilla and I are here
for an overnight trip... we have a press event tomorrow, and then
afterwards are off to Zhengzhou for our short run. We only have 3
shows in that city.
How you're all doing well!
=)
This is a test... this is only a test... We've now just arrived in Guangzhou... Peter, Sheilla and I are here
for an overnight trip... we have a press event tomorrow, and then
afterwards are off to Zhengzhou for our short run. We only have 3
shows in that city. How you're all doing well! =)
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Posted By Nic's Mommy to Adventures in China at 9/18/2008 07:56:00 PM
| Jetlag | Jul 11, '08 6:41 AM
for everyone |
It's 3:41 am here in Los Angeles... I did get to bed at a relatively decent hour, but alas, my body isn't allowing me rest. I am starting to feel a little sleepy, but thought to write a little bit before turning in.
Things are going very well indeed! Rehearsals for Cinderella are such fun, I'm happy to report... every day is filled with laughter. I mean, everyone is incredibly productive, and having a great time in the process. The focus of the actors and creative team is admirable. It's a wonderful company to be a part of.
I'm excited about the show tonight, too! A lot of family and friends will be there. It'll be my first time at the Walt Disney Concert Hall, so I have no idea what to expect. Well, I guess whatever questions I have will be answered when I get there. I hear the acoustics are incredible.
That's all for now... I seem to have trained my writing energy on my weekly column, trying to constantly find inspiration, above and beyond the suggestions that have come my way (thank you!). I have a few ideas... but I'm letting them grow a little bit before I deem them fit for public consumption.
Good morning, good afternoon, and good night... wherever you are!
Featuring:
Anna Santamaria
Felix Rivera
Carla Guevara - Laforteza
Harold Cruz
Caisa Borromeo
DIRECTED BY ROBBIE GUEVARA
August 24, 2008
8pm
Carlos P. Romulo Auditorium
RCBC Plaza
For Inquiries please contact Peachy or Janina through 707.3739 / 0906.3315961 / email peachy.atilano@gmail.com
I just received this message from another Multiply user... since there's a message here that would benefit the greater good, I thought to post it verbatim.
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Hello Ms. Lea! Kmusta po? Kmusta din po kay cutie pie Nic and to your hubby Rob.
I am one of your fans and I love reading your thoughts here on multiply. Anyway, can I ask a little favor please? Please tell your friends or readers of your site to read my post on my multiply account about this scam that has victimized a lot of OFWs and our kababayans in the Phils. This scam is about globe/smart prepaid cards business. Apparently, this hacker will hack your yahoo mail and messenger and will use your identity by chatting with your friends on your yahoo messenger and will ask a favor to buy him/her prepaid cards. He/she will then promise to pay you back the next day. After getting the PIN numbers of the cards, he/she will not reply anymore. I have been victimized by this hacker who used my identity to get money from my friends.
I am exposing this scam as much as I can. I even wrote Inquirer, ABS-CBN and GMA-7 to make an article, news or a warning to our kababayans in the Phils.
Please help me expose it to everybody.
Thank you very much Ms. Lea. More power to you and God bless.
Hope to see you here in Chicago!
lots of love,
Jen
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There you have it. Visit whatsupketchup to read her post. Thank you.
Hi there! I'm doing laundry at my Auntie's house in preparation for my trip home, so since I'm up waiting for it all to dry, I figured to write a pseudo-reply to my fans that have written me messages on Multiply...
It's a mite difficult to answer each and every message individually, as there are things that require my attention in the course of the day, but I do read everything (thanks for writing!).
- For those of you who wrote asking about my Cinderella schedule: I'll be doing each and every performance, barring illness, injury or vacation (I'm entitled to 2 weeks off somewhere in the run... waaaaaaaay after the Manila leg is over and done with). If you see that my understudy is performing, it means that I am not in any way physically able to do that particular show.
- For those who write about how cute Nicole is, THANK YOU!!! We think she's pretty darn cute too!
- For those just wanting to write to tell me about yourselves, wow! Thanks so much for sharing a part of you with me. It's great hearing about your families/school/children/talents/difficulties/hobbies/favorite things. I'll apologize in advance if I don't write back.
- For those who sent PMs with allergy-relief suggestions, a huge THANK YOU!!!
- And finally, for those inviting me to join your networks, I'm flattered, but unfortunately I will decline... I do keep my Multiply site visible to everyone, but this isn't exactly a fan site, hence those I add are personal friends and members of my family exclusively. This isn't meant as an offense to anyone. HOWEVER, there are two fan sites here on Multiply (and the people there are really, really nice). They are probably more up to date with my goings-on than I am (seriously!). Go ahead and add yourselves there. I'm also a member of both sites, so I check on them regularly, but I don't maintain them.
That is all! Okay, I think my laundry is done now... time for me to sleep too. Good night, and thank you again!
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